It has been said time and time again that first impressions are everything. This is also true for affairs dating websites. You need to make an impact from the moment that you contact here. You only have a few lines to get her interested, and so you carefully need to think about what you are going to say. This can be a little tricky since you do not want to sound like you are looking for a relationship, and at the same time not to sound over-eager to have sex. You need to be able to strike the perfect balance to get the girl to like you on first contact. You need to set some goals on what you want to achieve with your initial email. This will help you to figure out what to say, and how to say it.
What you need to achieve with your first email.
You need to be subtle, but at the same time still show that you are interested in sex. It goes without saying that people on cheating websites are looking for sex partners without all the emotional attachment. Therefore, there is no need to graphically describe what you want to do to her. A little subtlety goes a long way, and will keep her guessing.
Here are some of the goals that your first email should be able to achieve.
- Get a response from her
- Get her to respond positively
- Get her to take some interest in you.
- Get her to email you back as soon as possible
- Get her to divulge her contact information IM/ phone number
Once you have established your goals, you can begin to craft your first email. A good email should be able to get the above-mentioned goals accomplished, and get you well on your way to getting laid. Remember that you increase your chances of getting laid every time you contact a new girl.
How to go about writing the all-important first email
The first email can be tricky to write, but if you know what you are doing, you can guarantee that she will email you back. The first thing to make sure of is that you have a great subject line. Remember that other men are trying to get into her pants, and if your subject line is not catchy or does not grab her attention, she will not even open your email.
The introduction is equally important. It needs to be interesting such that she will want to read the rest of your email. An opening joke is a great way to keep her interested, and get her to read your email to the end. Avoid being vulgar and making crude remarks about your penis. She is not interested in how many sexes’ jokes about you can make.
Something else to keep in mind is that she is not interested in how horrible your wife is in bed. If she was good, you would not be cheating in the first place. Restrain from giving personal information about your sex life with your wife, as this is a sure way to get rejected. You should be humorous and friendly in your email, and make her feel at ease. If you give off a good vibe, she will want to meet you, and will be comfortable trying all the kinky things with you.
Keep your message short, preferably no more than 150 words. She probably has a lot of emails to go through, and might not have the time to read your emails. Avoid silly pick up lines, chances are she has heard them all. Be yourself and let your personality shine through. If you are not a particularly interesting person, fake it. It will pay off.
With these tips, you will definitely reel in the girl that you have been eying, and it will not take you long to get laid.